Round 2, making sure I don't F up again!

[spiegel549]

Just a thought..

Just a thought men...


I have the mindset down. I am just thinking IF and thats a big IF she does come over...is there a way I should "play it" to build up the sexual tension?

My original plan before she bailed was when I first saw her to not Kiss her right away and get her thinking...then as time progressed slowly start making a move and build it up by dancing, kissing her neck, etc until we tear each others clothes off.

Is that still a valid play in this case?

 

[flashpoint]

i think taking it slow is not really a mistake. btw. how did she earn that kiss exactly? it would seem a bit odd if you are actually slightly pissed at her and all of a sudden start kissing her. at least to her it might have a strange feeling and make her less receptive.

on the other hand she already feels guilty, and prolly will have an idea how she can get rid of that feeling. i wouldnt stop her, but also not push her towards it. just making her feel comfortable and take it from there.

by making her comfortable i mean showing her around first so she can get familiar with the place and tell her some stories or what and kino her (that slight touch at the lower back is always a winner. but shoulder and so on is fine as well). she should feel good in her skin and comfortable with you being close to her. and you can use some push&pull, be close then get away from her. especially in case she really wants to cook there should be lots of opportunity to look over her shoulder or similar and tease her with things, so you can stand close without touching her, then you leave her alone so she doesnt feel threatened. and so on. basically foreplay. and then when she is ready to be kissed you do it. most obviously dancing would be the opportunity but you can tease her a bit as well. when you see she wants it, dont do it right away, wait a bit and then surprise her. works like a charm. passion and sh!t.

so anyways good luck. dont use a script, keep it real. you will know best what to do when you are in the situation. if it feels right, it prolly is right and then you do it.