Ross Jeffries' patterns are not clear on how to create or say them right!

[Jh_wildman65]

I don't know how to create MY OWN patterns or how to say them in a way without treating them like questions instead of only going for a result! You know, asking women for your understanding so it seems really like you are not trying to seem manipulating. Oh, and does this stuff really work? I have NOT been able to use a pattern on a girl without an unexpected result! For example, I tend to stop and ask her for the answer to it! The only states I can vividly describe successfully are those of everything but loving, romantic, horny feelings, such as anger, sadness, fear, etc. !

Is there something wrong with how I am using this?

 

[oreo_renegade]

probably lol


when doing a pattern its helpful to talk slow and deep, and not ask qestiong, but rather describe feelings.

also its best if you use a pattern where you are describing another girl feelig things, instead of her.

so use words like "she" "her" insted or "you" "your"

that way it would seem much ess manipuating, and she will connect with it better.

at least from my experience this is true.

 

[Big-J]

It sounds like your saying them as if you were reading something to her. That's not how you pattern.

Use a deep seductive voice (not overly deep), put your hand on your chest get just deep enough to feel your voice resonate in your chest. That'll give you an idea.


Anyways, when you are patterning, if you are doing it correctly, you'll also get into the pattern, as it will effect you as well as the girl. The trick though is to maintain control of yourself (as you know what's going on). That's how you know a pattern is working, you feel it too. It's not just a one way, "I'm getting in your pants" experiance, really as a lot of people hope it is when starting out.