"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ross Jeffrie

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Luveno

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As far as I'm concerned, he's a charlatan.

Thus far there has been no evidence supporting the use of NLP.

Right now all we got is a guy who can market himself and his ideas to a desperate audience: post-divorce fortysomethings who are entering their midlife crises.

When true research has been done on NLP, then we will have our answer.

Right now its bollocks.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Is he still alive? Oh yeah, NLP works when its used in the way it was intended instead of some type of parlor trick.
 

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I think Ross Jeffries is onto something. In fact, I think he's doing things at a much higher level, that not many men are able to comprehend yet
Now, it is hard to argue with that video, because of the effect on the woman.
He has used different women in the past, and I would rather give him the benefit of the doubt in that he may not be using a 'plant', and accomplice in seminars and these women's reactions are genuine.

Anyway, I think there are multiple levels to this. and I think its not a bad idea to just keep an open mind to all the possibilities.
I will agree with most people on his particular brand of verbal stuff, like that creepy "Rollercoaster' gimmick, as being weird and too obviously unnatural.
I would never advocate or recommend any guy learning that material.
 

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The sound wasn't working when I tried to watch it, but have listened to some of his audio programs, and read some of his material.

Like someone else said, I try to keep an open mind to his style, and I am not going to say that I didn't get anything out of his stuff-I did, but NLP was not one of them (though I can't say as I tried all that much either). There are two things I didn't like about it:

1) The kinds of things he says to anchor women seen very un-natural. He goes on with these long spiels in the process that sound very cheesy, and says things that I could just see most women looking at you like you're a total weirdo. It might work after you've developed some kind of rapport already and say, are on a date. Maybe it takes practice to get to a more natural delivery, but it just comes off as very bizarre.

2) He uses the salesman approach of "Hey, this stuff works, if it's not working, then you must not be doing it right." In some cases it's true, but I find that approach very off-putting.

I still find a lot of what he has to say interesting, though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wasn't this the guy who was acting like a dog at a party and trying to sniff Carmen Electra's cloths? ( The Game)
 

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Yep, that would be him

He is weird to the extreme. He makes Tyler Durden seem like the captian of the football team.
 

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He absolutely hates everything and everyone and makes money off of the hopeless.

He is my idol.
 

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ChrizZ said:
He absolutely hates everything and everyone and makes money off of the hopeless.

He is my idol.
LOL.

All good comedy has some truth to it, they say. That must've been why that comment was funny.
 
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