JackRobin said:
yup, full of negativity, his blog is not worth a read or anything like that, seriously, the guy attacks feminists and other people to get attention
he *****es about not being able to get laid in most developed countries, his forum will screw you up for life, very poor source of information
Word. It's pretty easy to spot and avoid a bitter failure. The negativity is off the charts... Just pure venom. And its all based on the judgemental views of the person failing. No grey areas - just all bad. Not unlike the "American Women Suck" groups that are out there.
Granted, everyone is probably guilty of this - ****, I rant all the time - but some people take it to the extreme - with no positivity, hope, exceptions, personal responsibility, or uplifting advice at all. It's always someone else's fault, and they are perfect. Read between the BS, and that's what it comes down to. They just focus on the flaws on whomever they are hating - to indirectly justify their contempt towards them, and treating them like worthless objects. Never fails.
Many of them are also quite egotistical and conceited, and think they know everything / speak for everyone. They never take into account the things they could be doing wrong, either - just blame the object they are failing with for everything, and making it seem rational for them to hate them, and act as they do towards them - then blame them when they can't get their way with them.
Not different from any other abuser, really. That's all he is. An insecure, bitter ***** who sees only what he wants to see - based on his own flaws and failures - then comes up with his own irrational, all-or-nothing conclusions, and tries to convince himself and others that he's right - only to attack anyone who disagrees.
Granted, there is a lot of truth in negativity and ranting (see: music), but its greatly exaggerated, and based on the sole opinion of the person who's doing it, and the personal experiences they've had based on the kind of person THEY are. And that person is usually crazy and negative by nature (see: Axl Rose).
In the end, no one is completely innocent, and the more extreme and negative their views are - the more failures they have endured, and the more out of their ass they are speaking from.
He's no different from all the "nice guys" out there. They, too, are speaking from a complete failure's perspective, and coming up with their own BS theories based on that - while blaming the women for everything, deluding themselves into believing to be better than they are, justifying their horrible attitude towards them, etc - when they're the ones who suck at life, need to take responsibility for their own ****-ups, and stop crying about everything.
Of course, there are different variables at play, a lot of women do the same ****, etc. But there's definitely such thing as too extreme... Too bitter... Too whiny... Too negative. No matter how much they try to rationalize it, and seem calm and realistic about it - the hateful, failure-based undertone is always present... and clear as day. Otherwise, this would never be happening.
But again, we're all guilty of it to a degree. But he's quite extreme about it all. Thus, not worth listening to. I mean, in his "attractive value" assessment, he lists **** like being bald. Or how to spot a slut - with all these crap identifiers. Some are accurate, yes, but he takes everything too far, and lists every single possibility. AUWP! SHE BROUGHT UP SEX... SLUT!"
Damn idiots. But that's what bitterness as a result of failure does. Don't listen to them, and don't become like them.
I still say that Lewkis guy is worse, though