"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Roommate turned into girlfriend. She's still being a challenge.

Jaxon

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1984 said:
Doom and gloom! Doom and gloom!

I'll report back in a month and let you know if the paranoia you're all trying to instill in me is grounded in reality.
It's not paranoia dude, it's experience talking because history repeats itself. Rarely on these forums will you see agreement like what's happening in this thread. I second damn near every piece of advice that's been given to you.

We're not trying to be negative nancies, well most of us anyway, it's just that we've seen this play out before.

Good luck to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1984 said:
Doom and gloom! Doom and gloom!

I'll report back in a month and let you know if the paranoia you're all trying to instill in me is grounded in reality.
This is a case of denial like I've never seen one. Well, good luck anyway.
 

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some people don't know stuff. then there are those, like the OP, that don't KNOW they don't stuff.
 
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