Roomate one-itis

[drexler]

I've been living in a house for a few months. I ended up sleeping with both of my female roommates, which resulted in one moving out, but I don't need to get into all that. My problem is that I am currently sleeping with the remaining roommate as a f-buddy but have acquired one-itis toward her and it's starting to turn her off. I am sleeping with other (more attractive girls) but still can't shake my one-itis (which is hurting my inner game and turning off my in-house). I am considering stopping sleeping with her and stop showing affection towards her although I always find myself waiting for her to get home and being needy towards her.

Any thoughts? What would you guys do?

 

[SeldomSeen]

Re:

advice..yes stop sleeping with her!

My roommate (ex-roomie now since she moved into a house) and I were roommies for 4 years and she is very hot but I cant fathom the thought of sleeping with my best friend. That crosses the line with me. Unless you all arent really friends at all, if you all are then stop because you wont be able to handle it.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

hahahaha you are either brilliant or foolish for moving in with women and then proceeding to sleep with each and everyone of them.

You are her "go to" guy when she's horny and just chilling at home... Think of it as sorta an in house extra curricular activity.

Stop sleeping with her completley and keed yourself occupied with other women if you want to get out of the "oneitis".. it won't be easy becaus she's always around and you two probably spend alot of time around eachother so i think you've probably sorta fooled yourself into thinking you two are "together".... and this wasn't done on purpose, rather a direct affect of you two living under the same roof.

 

[Weak_Game]

Rule #1. Do not shi+ where you sleep.

Find a new roomate and dont sleep with them. Perferably a guy. Ive lived with both guys and girls. At first i was reluctant to live with a guy. But overall i had way more good times, less drama, and longer lasting friendships.

 

[drexler]

Thanks.

We weren't friends prior to living together and we became friends/f-buddies at about the same time. I don't think she is long term material and we are somewhat of friends. You're probably right- I should stop sleeping with her. It's tough when you have to see her every day though.

 

[drexler]

B.A.C., great response.

I think you are completely right and will try to take your advice to heart. I think I subcounciously fooled myself into thinking we are together. I don't plan on moving out but we getting a new roomate. I will try not to get with her but I've heard she is a 21yo hottie.