"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Roomate discrimination

studd

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I emailed few craigslist ads for roomate ,

If i say im guy ,no response
If i email with my name as linda/lucy mary I get immediate response
even from girls ,not just guys

If you are single male its liability

discrimination
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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try sending a picture and a little about yourself.

your coming off like a creep in this thread I imagine your giving off the same vibe on the craigslist ads (which is the epicenter of online creeps).
 

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is it legal to discriminate based on sex ?

is it legal to discriminate based on sex ? for housing
anyone work in realestate broker
 

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even from girls ,not just guys
If I was a female I would MUCH rather live with a female than a guy. Way safer.

And if I was a guy, I would MUCH rather live with a female than a guy. Way cleaner (usually).

Rational discrimination.
 
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