"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"romantic" Things I won't do anymore

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Not doing this stuff won't make me an "alpha dog" or whatever.It's ok to do this stuff sometimes. I just don't feel like wasting my time doing them.

1. Brushing hair

2.Cooking dinner

3.Running damn bath water

4. Buying you any damn gifts

5.Cuddling in bed after sex

6.Talking for a long time after sex

7.Giving massages

8.On the phone for a super long time

9. I won't say I love any woman

Damn I guess that pretty much sums it up for me. You guys feel free to discuss this or add to the list.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree with some of those, but overall it just sounds pretty cynical.
What the heck is wrong with love, anyway?
I grew up in the 60s, love was a good thing.
 

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^agree with the guy above. Btw if by hair brushing you mean hers, then the word you're looking for isn't "romantic", it's "whipped".
 

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Btw if by hair brushing you mean hers, then the word you're looking for isn't "romantic", it's "whipped".
Lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mikeyb said:
^agree with the guy above. Btw if by hair brushing you mean hers, then the word you're looking for isn't "romantic", it's "whipped".
Hahaha my thoughts exactly.

I dont agree with cooking; I love doint that and its one of my seduction tools. Women love a guy who can whip a nice meal.

You make the meal and they take care of the "dessert"...
 

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i would not call them romantic.
some of your examples turn them on.
plus i like massaging my women.
it helps them relax and i like rubbing their tata's all the way down to their gspot.
 

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You sound like a jilted old woman.

You can do whatever you want if you put yourself in the right situation with the right woman. You just gotta have some pride in yourself and not give your heart to every skank that shows you a little attention.
 

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mikeyb said:
Btw if by hair brushing you mean hers, then the word you're looking for isn't "romantic", it's "whipped".
I disagree. I love brushing hair, and playing with her and in the meantime wrap my legs around her waist for some serous kino. If I want to, I can always turn it into a good f*cking, so I don't see why you would call it whipped.

By this, I can probably turn any single f*cking action you do into a statement that declares you whipped. It's all in the execution of the action, not the action itself, that makes it p*ssified or whipped. Sure, certain actions are whipped by default, like kissing her ass, doing everything for her, buying her gifts.

However, most actions are undefined until they're executed. Brushing hair is one of my tools of seduction.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Brushing your hair is a matter of personal hygiene. You should do it.
 

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Naw not bitter I might reneg on some of these like massaging but Not on others like cooking. I also won't brush hair just gay. I feel like I have no time for any of this anymore. I'm also not in a new relationship so things are always different when you start a new relationship.
 

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yo my homie ****ed a really hot girl after brushing her hair...
 

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xdreamz said:
yo my homie ****ed a really hot girl after brushing her hair...
Are you sure the hair was on her head? ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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