"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Romantic ideas? (Any women want to comment?)

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Hi guys

Now I know part of the whole romance thing is to be original, but sometimes it's the cliches that women like (rose petals on the bed, etc).

So I was wondering if any of you would like to share the romantic things you've done for your girlfriends?

Or the ladies here have any stories?

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rose petals are covered with pesticide and poisons, btw.

For romance, I like nature, mostly because it is free. There is no "I am buying your affection" vibe. Try sunsets, sunrises, stargazing, meteor showers, and wildlife. Fireworks displays are also good.
 

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My fiance used to brush my hair, paint my toenails, freshen my lipstick for me. Because I loved him, to me that was really romantic. He also used to try to pick my nose when he was being a goof, which I didn't find very romantic at all.

And Bible is right...being romantic doesn't have to cost money. Some of the best romantic gestures are free. Taking a blanket to a beach at night or a field under the stars is a good idea and it doesn't cost anything unless you want to add your favorite wine. But that's not necessary...just optional if you and the girl even like wine.
 
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