"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Romantic ideas? (Any women want to comment?)

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Hi guys

Now I know part of the whole romance thing is to be original, but sometimes it's the cliches that women like (rose petals on the bed, etc).

So I was wondering if any of you would like to share the romantic things you've done for your girlfriends?

Or the ladies here have any stories?

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bible_Belt

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Rose petals are covered with pesticide and poisons, btw.

For romance, I like nature, mostly because it is free. There is no "I am buying your affection" vibe. Try sunsets, sunrises, stargazing, meteor showers, and wildlife. Fireworks displays are also good.
 

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My fiance used to brush my hair, paint my toenails, freshen my lipstick for me. Because I loved him, to me that was really romantic. He also used to try to pick my nose when he was being a goof, which I didn't find very romantic at all.

And Bible is right...being romantic doesn't have to cost money. Some of the best romantic gestures are free. Taking a blanket to a beach at night or a field under the stars is a good idea and it doesn't cost anything unless you want to add your favorite wine. But that's not necessary...just optional if you and the girl even like wine.
 
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