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Master Don Juan
Ordered 5 copies for myself & close friends+relatives.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's what I'm wondering. Is this a book mainly about seduction and the male/female dynamic, or are there other topics as well?Colossus said:It's a compendium of all his theories and game tenets.
Me too buddy. There is nothing new under the manosphere sun. I struggle with updating my own blog more than once a month---I just don't have any real new or compelling observations to write about. You reach a certain point where you are just saturated with the material. Even the big bloggers like Heartiste, Roosh, and the Spearhead crew are just repackaging common knowledge, or stooping to petty sociopolitical commentary. There are enough of those blogs in the world.samspade said:I am actually burned out on "Manosphere" material. I've read so much it's just constant nodding in agreement for me at this point. I tried writing my own blog and realized I have nothing to add that's original, at least now.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Can I get this through Amazon?zekko said:Certainly less embarassing than having something like "How to Get Laid, for Losers" on your bookshelf, lol.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I like discussing this type of thing with women. It's fun.zekko said:I'm not sure why I would want to discuss its contents with a woman
Good point, a lot of these pickup method books and videos are priced like they're made of gold or something. All of them claim to hold the "secret", and yet they all seem to contain basically the same material, with a few minor tweaks. 10 bucks is very reasonable.hockeyfreak79 said:Still can't believe this was only 10 bucks! Just the content and introduction has me hooked already.
SMH and to think 13-14 years ago I spent 100 on the system....Bahaha
I'd love to see a transcript of that conversationPeaks&Valleys said:I like discussing this type of thing with women. It's fun.
1.0 out of 5 stars
Mostly run-on manosphere manure, October 26, 2013
By Matthew E. Lockwood "Matt reads" (KC,MO) - See all my reviews
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Amazon Verified Purchase(What's this?) I like some of the new men's movement books out there, such as 'No More Mr Nice Guy' and 'Married Man Sex Life Primer'. I think Rollo Tomassi's book takes it too far.
I dont necessarily believe in the feminist imperative: Women arent, as a whole, Hypergamous. I just dont see it. Of course, a Rollo Tomassi cool-aid drinker will write that I feel this way because the feminists have me duped. Ok.
Also, this book is written for the single man, so it doesnt apply to the entire manosphere. I feel his theory is that if you are married, you obviously didnt read his book or blog, or take his advice.
The book is one long run-on sentence, not well formatted.
A couple valid points about the role of men in our society today, but mostly just theoretical drivel.
Women have to parade around the internet these days under male names. They do this because they know nobody will take them seriously otherwise. Just look how many women come here pretending to be men? I bet it's more than we realize. Why don't you see men posing as women on Loveshack?samspade said:He didn't even really review the book. That's Amazon reviews for you. Plus as the commenter on the review mentioned, Rollo's married.
I would only add that feminists don't have the guy duped; most men dupe themselves.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That was a GOAT book. that book did more for me in 2 weeks than this site had done in 2 years back in 2004.samspade said:That's funny - I had "How to Succeed with Women" (Louis & Copeland) back in the day. WAY back in the day. I always had to hide it somewhere in my room. I eventually got rid of it...that book was got outdated really fast and some of its game tactics were sappy and lame.
It absolutely was a GEM and I agree with you 100%backbreaker said:That was a GOAT book. that book did more for me in 2 weeks than this site had done in 2 years back in 2004.