"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rollo's book is out.

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http://therationalmale.com/2013/09/...on.com/The-Rational-Male-ebook/dp/B00FK901R8/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Beat me to it Warrior, thanks.
 

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Congratulations and good luck.

As the master of Torrents, and e-book repositories, I will try to let you know when a copy of your book drops in the "usual" market.

It means publicity, really, if you can't find it in the internets, it really doesn't matter.
 

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Congrats man. Glad to see the book finally come to fruition! I'll be picking this one up soon.

Cheers to you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Beat me to it Warrior, thanks.
No problem. I have a hard copy on it's way. Can't wait to put it on the bookshelf.
 

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Congrats, Rollo!
 

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Dear Rollo,
A sad truth is,knowing you are the Author,no book could live up to my expectations...When it is on Amazon UK,then I will purchase...Must be honest though,despite having taught Technical English I find your Net Site,very hard going...Someone once said,no Author went belly up,who underestimated the Reading age of the American Public!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Rollo,
A sad truth is,knowing you are the Author,no book could live up to my expectations...When it is on Amazon UK,then I will purchase...Must be honest though,despite having taught Technical English I find your Net Site,very hard going...Someone once said,no Author went belly up,who underestimated the Reading age of the American Public!
It's on Amazon UK, I just ordered. ;)
 

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Dear De Rosco,
Thanx for that,Gosh that's quick,I shall buy a copy tomorrow....I prefer dealing with British Dealers,the Royal Mail is just soo efficient!
 

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Congrats Rollo T, I'm gonna pick up my copy this week! :)
 

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Thanks guys. I should mention that SoSuave features heavily in it, but you already knew that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Congrats to you Rollo T.! Gotta pick this one up, and thanks for all your help!
 

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Excellent!

Way to go, Rollo.

Order's in, and looking forward to its arrival.
 

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Good job man. Your website is legendary and I am sure your book will be as well. I ordered a copy and can't wait to get my hands on it.

Well done!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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