"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rolling your long sleeves up

leoncour

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I have noticed that a lot of people like to wear a long sleeve shirt and then roll up the sleeves so that it looks more like a short sleeved shirt, exposing your forearms. I think the Gap and BR have some nice shirts I could do this with. I feel like buying some long sleeved shirtsand trying it out. I think it looks good...what do you guys think? Do the ladies like it, or is it a fad?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mpimpin

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Works for me. Try it if you want
 

Ace of Flames

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If you do it and you get giant elbows made of sleeve, that's not the most attractive look. Try it with a shirt made of thinner material.
 

realsmoothie

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Rolled-up sleeves is a much more casual look. I can't wear my long-sleeved shirts all the way down, it now drives me nuts.

With some shirts you can get away with just folding the cuffs up.
 
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