Rofl, girlfriend accused me of cheating last night

[pimpdatass]

Ok, I gotta say this is a first. Last night I called my girl up and asked her if she wanted to do something. She said she wanted to just stay in, so I went out with a group of friends. She calls me today and says her girlfriend saw me on a date last night lol. I was not on a date, in fact it was a group of 4 guys and 1 girl. So either her friend is lying or my girl is making **** up. Has anyone ever had this happen? Personally I think she is making it up but wtf, this is pretty damn weird.

Would love to hear some input on this.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Red Flag bro, keep your eye out. There are 1000 different reasons why she's acting this way so be careful. This could be a preview of whats to come, or maybe it's a test to see how you react to accusations. Either way, take note and watch for clues.

What you need to do is stay calm and cool and tell her...'look, i don't know what your friends deal is, or why you are accusing me of something that i didn't do, but you need to get your facts straight. I told you what i was doing last night'.

 

[pimpdatass]

Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Red Flag bro, keep your eye out. There are 1000 different reasons why she's acting this way so be careful. This could be a preview of whats to come, or maybe it's a test to see how you react to accusations. Either way, take note and watch for clues.

What you need to do is stay calm and cool and tell her...'look, i don't know what your friends deal is, or why you are accusing me of something that i didn't do, but you need to get your facts straight. I told you what i was doing last night'.

Thanks for the advice. Yeah, definitely something is up.

I was pretty calm, and was kind laughing it off a bit. I have been with a good amount of girls but never had this happen lol.

Sounds like she just wants attention.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by pimpdatass
Thanks for the advice. Yeah, definitely something is up.

I was pretty calm, and was kind laughing it off a bit. I have been with a good amount of girls but never had this happen lol.

Sounds like she just wants attention.

A girl wanting attention? No way!! haha..
It sounds like you handled it perfectly....

 

[pimpdatass]

Originally posted by biker_gixxer
A girl wanting attention? No way!! haha..
It sounds like you handled it perfectly....

I have been thinking it over and now I am thinking that what you said about it being a test might be true. There are much easier and more logical ways of trying to get attention.

I think she suspected I might have been with another girl last night and figured if she said someone saw me...I would admit to it. However I of course was not on a date!

Its gonna be interesting to see how this plays out. Thing is she will never admit she made this up, obviously I am not gonna admit to something I didn't do. So what the hell is gonna happen?


Any other input welcome. I am sure a few guys on this board have had this happen..

 

[sexy_kuta]

tell her to smell ur CooCK!

laugh it off too

 

[pimpdatass]

Lol.

 

[biker_gixxer]

She probably didn’t like the fact that you went out and she stayed home (even though it was her idea to stay in). I’m pretty sure she sat there watching TV wondering what you were doing and who you were with.

Her insecurities got the best of her and she started imagining you talking to other girls and flirting. She probably did this all night driving herself crazy with her own ‘imagination’. Next thing you know, she’s got it in her mind that you MUST have done something while you were with the boys. Now, she’s accusing you of cheating.

Now, if this is the case, she should of ‘asked’ you if anything happened instead of automatically thinking you cheated and throwing bull$hit tests at you. Either way…I see psycho tendencies brewing bro. Keep a sharp eye out.

What happens from here depends on you.

 

[Tomatoes]

I used to have this problem all the time with my prev girlfriend. Her friends used to make up the biggest stories about me being with other girls. I am a an of truth. My girl knew that so she always belived me when i told her what i was really doing. PLus i would push to back it up until she admitted to belive me. Persistance. After a while she just totally stopped trusting her mates about me. (For the record i never did cheat).

 

[pimpdatass]

Originally posted by biker_gixxer
She probably didn’t like the fact that you went out and she stayed home (even though it was her idea to stay in). I’m pretty sure she sat there watching TV wondering what you were doing and who you were with.

Her insecurities got the best of her and she started imagining you talking to other girls and flirting. She probably did this all night driving herself crazy with her own ‘imagination’. Next thing you know, she’s got it in her mind that you MUST have done something while you were with the boys. Now, she’s accusing you of cheating.

Now, if this is the case, she should of ‘asked’ you if anything happened instead of automatically thinking you cheated and throwing bull$hit tests at you. Either way…I see psycho tendencies brewing bro. Keep a sharp eye out.

What happens from here depends on you.

I think you are absolutely right. My guess is she was up all night watching sex and the city. Not to mention that I do believe it is that time of the month.

This could definitely be a sign of future insanity on her part. Thinking as to whether I should call her or let her call me.

Women, they are ****ing nuts lol.

 

[pimpdatass]

Originally posted by Tomatoes
I used to have this problem all the time with my prev girlfriend. Her friends used to make up the biggest stories about me being with other girls. I am a an of truth. My girl knew that so she always belived me when i told her what i was really doing. PLus i would push to back it up until she admitted to belive me. Persistance. After a while she just totally stopped trusting her mates about me. (For the record i never did cheat).

I am pretty much positive that my girl made this up. I hardly know her friend, so it would make no sense for her to make this up. I guess my girl is just a psycho, who would have known?

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by pimpdatass
I think you are absolutely right. My guess is she was up all night watching sex and the city. Not to mention that I do believe it is that time of the month.

This could definitely be a sign of future insanity on her part. Thinking as to whether I should call her or let her call me.

Women, they are ****ing nuts lol.

Sex and the city + PMS = Trouble

Yeah, they are a little whacky, but if you learn how to spot trouble early, you'll save yourself allot of headaches...lol.

 

[sexysuave]

Hmm

Dude, let's think about this for a second. Everyone is ignoring what is a little obvious from the info you got there. Girl does NOT want to go with you, you go anyways. She gets "mad" and says you cheated on her. You played it off pretty nice and all, but now you're wondering if you should call her or if she should call you. This means, she's NOT calling you at the moment.

Her friend has very little motive against you since you hardly know her. Hmmm.. Have you ever thought of the possibility that she may be losing interest in you? A lot of girls make **** like this up just to have a "LEGIT" reason to leave a guy. Even the slight speculation of whatever happened is great for her because she might make her self feel better about it ("oh, the creep probably did cheat anyways), and she can have a solid reason for letting you go and dodge telling you that she is just plain not all that interested anymore.

Now you need to be really honest with your self, and figure out if this is what's happening. It shouldn't be too hard, this of her body language and attitude a little prior to this, it probably changed just a tiny bit and deep down you might have wondered what is wrong and your gut was telling you something. If this is the case, you might just want to let it go.

If not, you could actually call her and tell her the facts "hey, look hon, I didn't cheat on you and I got 5 people that were with me to prove it. Either your friend is a lier, or you're just making this stuff up to find your self a reason to hold something against me. If the lader is the case, then just don't bother calling me anymore, you could have picked an easier way out. If your friend really told you this and you actually believe her, you're more then welcome to ask my friends what happened if you really choose so".. or something of that sort anyways, but yeah, doens't sound good to me. good luck bro..