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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup: Too funny! So can you tell us about your "classy" women?edger said:My standards are high, trust me. If I don't think the chix on Bret Michaels' show 'Rock Of Love' are hot, or Pam Anderson is all that great, or the Spitzer escort is all that great, then I think that is enough to convey that I have pretty high standards for my women. lol.
HOMBRE said::crackup: Too funny! So can you tell us about your "classy" women?
Nah, you're right. You guys never did any such thing.ketostix said:What's so funny about a guy having standards? You know, when we went over to LS we never posted such meanigless and asinine replies.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well if a person has any objectivity, they would see regardless of delivery there was a very valid points in all of our posts there. And we stuck to ideas and didn't make everything personal and condescending when it didn't need to be, unlike they do there.HOMBRE said:Nah, you're right. You guys never did any such thing.![]()