"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rock the stubble

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my g/f dumped me for not taking the relationship seriously. I put the razor down and went out with a couple of buddies to the bar and played pool. this HB 9 came over and asked me to teach her how to play. we chit-chatted and I ended up takin' her home and rockin' her panties clean off. good things happen when you're having a good time.

bottoms up fellas...

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRMoon

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The stubble look ads a bit of bad boy to eveybody's pallet. However if you haven't or can't grow a full beard then I wouldn't recommend it. Not implying anthing to the OP (full beard would be obvious to the blind) but I know some kids who really can't pull it off. My boy and I rock the stubble on sundays at the pool...to hung over from saturday to put blades near our faces.
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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I shave about once a week, and when I do it's not even all the way down. I'm rocking stubble or more all the time. For some reason though I still shave my mustache because I don't like the way it grows in (plus the acne cream bleaches it).
 

pLaYtHiNg

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Good lookin' guy. I dig the stubbled look. (Well I dig facial, and even body hair, too, so I guess that goes hand in hand). :)

I'd like to see who else is rockin' the stubble... :D :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aragon034

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being spanish, facial hair is my friend. I look... weird without at least a goatee.

usually i'll either have stubble, or at maximum a full goatee (As in completely wrapping my lips, Mustache and Chin) along with a very thing chinstrap.

I hate full shaving. not that it's hard or anything, i just look... babyish.
 

WhitePimp

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I hate buying razors so I've been letting my sh!t grow for a week before I usually cut it. I think my face looks better with it to be honest...and it actually has a positive mental effect on me, like I care less or something which is definitely good.
 

WhtRbt

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Every man should learn to use a straight razor
 
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