Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rock Chick Game

Syren

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No question about it rock chicks are different game all together, something I've been trying out in my home town a little. I've found DHV stories don't work nearly as well, they prefer the more spur of the moment fun stuff (as a general rule of thmb) and playfights are much more common.

My opener is usually about some cool jewlrey and if they were at the Download festival (A1), if yes, did they see the KoRn set, because Davis was taken ill, but there was a dude in a bunny suit jumping around who sounded like him (A2). Good knowledge of Music helps, strong body languge and playful pushing, also if you can dance to ROCK music, thats huge. You get some serious hotties at rock clubs, and usually you're allowed to go topless as a guy... Two visual DHV's.

From the music I tend to build rapport about bands that have meant something to me, and qualify them on what bands are guilty pleasures (I start by admitting I'm a Linkin Park fan, then putting my fists up queensbury rules style.) (A3 and comfort transition)

I used this stuff a couple of times at the download festival on random strangers, and used the whole festival as calibration experience. It's helped, last night I was out and a girl I've been talking to a few time's has her friend come over and say she likes me. The girl is a (rock chick 8), super funky red hair in all directions and an almost Japanese dress sense, its pretty cool. I said "bless", smiled at her friend and said hi to HB8 and then left after giving her a quick hug. (Classic Harlequin takeaway).

These are all very early experience notes, but the game with these girls does seem to be a little different because
1) Much less ***** sheild
2) Very different culture/values

Hope this helps, I'm refine my findings and post more on it in time...:up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Big Eee Zee

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i dont really like em, little to no long term value.

My g/f was attempting to be one when we met, but i guided her away from it. Now she will prolly end up being a succesful entrepenur.

Woo, I added one more functional member to society. GO ME!
 

Syren

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Everyone has their faults, but its the look more than the pesonal success attributes. I don't intend to stay with a rock chick for very long...
 

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I have a soft spot for rock chicks. I used to play drums in garage bands, plus I like everything from Dire Straits to Deicide (death metal). So building rapport is farking easy. Pity that most have small attention spans, suffer from terminal apathy, or smoke too much weed. I still dream of finding my perfect rock chick, though...
 

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They're more open, fo sho, I used to be in that crowd.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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