"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Robbing the cradle?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I'm 27 and going out with a 19 year old. It only feels creepy at the beginning... then you get used to it.theunflushables said:
I think I'd rather shoot myself in the face then date someone my own age.
The other time it bugs people, are those who dont get the chance with them. Lets say a dude gives you crap. He's really jealous.
To me it boils down to the person. Sure i'm older and i'd like to get married sometime in the next few years, but if I found a woman that young and I had a great time with her and she was really great, it wouldn't matter.
I was even thinking this tonight.... Man, she's really cute, so full of energy, happy, nice, and is a woman you could get along with, prob never argue much with, and wouldn't be a worry at all, but she isn't quite 18. Sucks cause i'm sure she'd be a good one.
I'd rather have that, than someone my age, who turns out to be depressed all the time, or just a crappy woman. I dont care how old you are, if your a terrible woman, I dont want you.
Sure you're like... Man, she cant have a glass of wine if we go out, or i'm out of college, and she isn't in college, and she goes to prom and high school football games, and I might have to go along
But you deal with that fact, and just go... I have this great woman.Some want to just bang em and that's all, and each persons choice, but if I found one to actually date, I would. I always fall back on the cons, but if she makes me happy, so what.
Just plan on going to prom with her, or be there when she is at games :cheer: