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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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WHAT IF THE GIRL IS 25 and the guy is 18? I always have 18 and 19 year olds hitting on me, and I'm not sure what to do about it, lol.
 
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theunflushables said:
So this smoking hot chick is asking for my number. The only thing is she's 18 and I'm going to be turning 25 in two weeks. Would it be considered creepy if I hooked up with her? Hell, I don't even know if she lives with her parents or not. That might be weird. Any thoughts?
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I'm 27 and going out with a 19 year old. It only feels creepy at the beginning... then you get used to it.

I think I'd rather shoot myself in the face then date someone my own age.
 
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Sometimes the people that care are the older women like mentioned, or people you know. At first when I was dating someone 18 at 23 I thought that was kind of weird at first, but I almost married the woman, and after a bit, age wasn't even a factor. No one even asked, cared, or what ever. She wasn't just a bang em leave em woman, and in fact she was prob the best girlfriend I had. So for me, it went to show me age wasn't a determining factor of who I clicked with. Now sure there will always be... Well the advantages of an older woman are blah blah blah, and sure.

The other time it bugs people, are those who dont get the chance with them. Lets say a dude gives you crap. He's really jealous.

To me it boils down to the person. Sure i'm older and i'd like to get married sometime in the next few years, but if I found a woman that young and I had a great time with her and she was really great, it wouldn't matter.

I was even thinking this tonight.... Man, she's really cute, so full of energy, happy, nice, and is a woman you could get along with, prob never argue much with, and wouldn't be a worry at all, but she isn't quite 18. Sucks cause i'm sure she'd be a good one.

I'd rather have that, than someone my age, who turns out to be depressed all the time, or just a crappy woman. I dont care how old you are, if your a terrible woman, I dont want you.

Sure you're like... Man, she cant have a glass of wine if we go out, or i'm out of college, and she isn't in college, and she goes to prom and high school football games, and I might have to go along :eek: But you deal with that fact, and just go... I have this great woman.

Some want to just bang em and that's all, and each persons choice, but if I found one to actually date, I would. I always fall back on the cons, but if she makes me happy, so what.

Just plan on going to prom with her, or be there when she is at games :cheer:
 
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