"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Road trip US to find a wife @40+ <hail Mary on tren>

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So, after decades of game, a dozen + books, playboy is in his car touring via road trip across America. Correct me if I am wrong, The goal (apparently) is to find a wife. The dude is doing tours, meetups, and vblog the experience of a life time. Apparently, he has found God and wants a wife. After goings through the fire for absolutely absurd amount of time, good on him, and good luck. He is throwing up the Hail Mary imho. I will tune in going forward.


Have any of you 'mature matur' fellas tried this? I did a road trip following grad. It was all hit and run, crush poon until money ran out as a broke high schooler/soon to be freshman college student. Even with years of pickup, the idea of marriage is absolutely ridiculous especially when aware of female nature. The premise seems Beyond broken. Nothing short of black pill. Curious as to what is going to happen.

I don't mean this as a slight or backhanded insult of RooshV. The guys still on the grind though a farcry from his origins. I deem this to be growth. It should be a good indicator for the men on their come up as to how bad th3 SMP is. And to what length m3n will go for the ideal.

I am pulling for him but I am a Cynic. I wont hold my breathe. I suspect that, even if successful, he will miss the old bang days in contrast to the sacrifice of bachelor life, and what little (if anything) is to come in exchange. Do a cost evaluation and determine the ROI for said sacrifice, and it just isn't so.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've known quite a few people who did a lot of partying, found God and settled down (and had kids), then decided that it was boring and loosened up a bit. It takes some people a while to find balance in their lives.
 

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I've known quite a few people who did a lot of partying, found God and settled down (and had kids), then decided that it was boring and loosened up a bit. It takes some people a while to find balance in their lives.
I agree. With RooshV, I have to say, I think he's trolling or trying a different way to market. Unlike the time swarms of angry fat feminists (is there any other kind?) atracked him in droves a few yrs ago.

Dustin from the book the game was a natty who pulled women and then found God. Converted to Jerusalem and apparently changee his ways.

If you recall, the book ends with the fairytale happy ending, and Strauss the geek gets a girl. It does not work out nor did his marriage. Dude is being divorce raped and bad. The book needed to be cautious tale of the lifestyle and the ultimate underdog story in order to sell. The real ending was the analogy of filling a bucket with holes.

#7, RooshV articulates it bang on. Chats up droves of cute young girls. Not Models. Not ig insta *****s. It is something that anybody who spent any significant amount of time in pickup would understand that process. The cyclical nature of the routine and the transformation that comes hereafter.
 
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