TheException
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Worry is one of the most important aspects of a healthy relationship....and no numnuts its not about the guy worrying.
During a conversation with my girlfriend last night she blurted out this little nugget:
GF: So have you ever thought about how crazy life is and how people can mess up good things for themselves.
TheException: what? *almost chuckling as if she is high and talking nonsense*
GF: There is a girl in my class who literally just told me how she cheated on her boyfriend this weekend and they broke up when he found out. Like why would people ever do that?
TheException: Because they are weak willed.
GF: What do you mean?
TheException: Its easier for people to give in than to face adversity and overcoming challenges *whether this sentence really applied or not, it did not matter I was speaking about bigger life events than a relationship*
GF: omg blah blah blah blah. Im glad your different and are working hard on your projects. Your not like other guys.
TheException: I know
GF: And you know what....I do worry and am always making sure Im being supportive and positive for you. I literally fear the sh1t out of screwing up and just arguing over something stupid and then you break up and walk away and never talk to me again....
TheException: I know baby, thats why Im with you..............also because you cook really good *smirk*
GF: hahaha blah blah blah
Gentlemen take note of the bolded in the conversation. This is EXACTLY the context/frame in which the ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP should be under. She should seek to support you and in the back of her mind KNOW THAT YOU ARE A GREAT CATCH...and if you ever grow disappointed in her beyond a certain point....YOU WILL WALK AWAY.
-Never be content. Always strive for more.
-Be the prize of the relationship..."Need her less".
-Find a supportive woman for an exclusive relationship, not some crazy b1tch just because she has nice tits. Looks are a necessity...but when you get good and start having lots of options....there are other parameters that need to be checked.
FINAL NOTE: Read somewhere on here recently about field reports being "useless" or something to that effect. Now if thats your belief than good luck to you, but realize that field reports are simply "FIELD TESTED EXPERIMENTS" of theories that we discuss on here(or atleast they should be). Literally learn from others that get results and are willing to share them with you. The best way to change is to "model behavior"...act long enough one way...and it becomes reality.
During a conversation with my girlfriend last night she blurted out this little nugget:
GF: So have you ever thought about how crazy life is and how people can mess up good things for themselves.
TheException: what? *almost chuckling as if she is high and talking nonsense*
GF: There is a girl in my class who literally just told me how she cheated on her boyfriend this weekend and they broke up when he found out. Like why would people ever do that?
TheException: Because they are weak willed.
GF: What do you mean?
TheException: Its easier for people to give in than to face adversity and overcoming challenges *whether this sentence really applied or not, it did not matter I was speaking about bigger life events than a relationship*
GF: omg blah blah blah blah. Im glad your different and are working hard on your projects. Your not like other guys.
TheException: I know
GF: And you know what....I do worry and am always making sure Im being supportive and positive for you. I literally fear the sh1t out of screwing up and just arguing over something stupid and then you break up and walk away and never talk to me again....
TheException: I know baby, thats why Im with you..............also because you cook really good *smirk*
GF: hahaha blah blah blah
Gentlemen take note of the bolded in the conversation. This is EXACTLY the context/frame in which the ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP should be under. She should seek to support you and in the back of her mind KNOW THAT YOU ARE A GREAT CATCH...and if you ever grow disappointed in her beyond a certain point....YOU WILL WALK AWAY.
-Never be content. Always strive for more.
-Be the prize of the relationship..."Need her less".
-Find a supportive woman for an exclusive relationship, not some crazy b1tch just because she has nice tits. Looks are a necessity...but when you get good and start having lots of options....there are other parameters that need to be checked.
FINAL NOTE: Read somewhere on here recently about field reports being "useless" or something to that effect. Now if thats your belief than good luck to you, but realize that field reports are simply "FIELD TESTED EXPERIMENTS" of theories that we discuss on here(or atleast they should be). Literally learn from others that get results and are willing to share them with you. The best way to change is to "model behavior"...act long enough one way...and it becomes reality.