Want to give all you guys a lesson here about placing too much emphais on one girl or having too much investment with one girl.
If you see my threads over the last couple months you'd see I kept mentioning this girl who I'm in a fwb thing. Most threads had the theme of catching feelings, possibly turning it into a relationship etc.
I want to tell you it didn't happen, I played it by the book. She was the first to ask what we were, we discussed it and realised we were at different ideas.
Since then we've gone back to fwb, seen each other once a week to **** etc and it's been fun. It's been easy, and believe I know realise thankfully that having not got into a relationship with this girl was the best move
Anyways, this girl has now flaked on me twice. First time was legit, she was travelling back from a weekend away as was I and timings didn't match up.
Most recently she bailed on me 45 minutes from when we were set to meet.
Her reasons? She was tired, lots of work, ill. She lives 2 minutes away.
I took it for the BS it was and haven't replied to her and likely won't for quite some time. She's always the first to initiate anyways so I'll address the flaking when it next comes up. Or maybe not. I don't care.
I digress however, as I really couldn't give two ****s about not seeing this girl tonight. Why? Because I don't have any strong investment with this girl, and i can't stress enough fellas that you can't have attachment in the longrun if you're just looking for a bang.
You know what I did with the time I could've spent banging this girls brains out?
I created revision notes for an exam I have in 2 weeks, I progressed further with my university coursework, I called my dad and arranged to meet my family at the weekend for my mum's birthday, I got on the phone to Apple and got a free Macbook Pro after they ****ed up my last repair.
Hell, I even had another girl come round (who hates my guts by the way
) and we had a quick catchup and you know what she said 'You look good Dan, your skin is great!'
And you know what? I DO look good, my skin DOES look great, I'm in the gym often and it shows.
But you know what makes that all the more important is that I already know it, I don't NEED anyone to tell it to me as I know my self-worth and that I'm actually quite a catch.
That's why I don't care about not seeing this girl tonight, sure s_x is always good but I don't let this rejection get me done. **** her (literally )
Know your worth guys, be less attached, focus on you, and always keep busy as there's always something to be done.
If you see my threads over the last couple months you'd see I kept mentioning this girl who I'm in a fwb thing. Most threads had the theme of catching feelings, possibly turning it into a relationship etc.
I want to tell you it didn't happen, I played it by the book. She was the first to ask what we were, we discussed it and realised we were at different ideas.
Since then we've gone back to fwb, seen each other once a week to **** etc and it's been fun. It's been easy, and believe I know realise thankfully that having not got into a relationship with this girl was the best move
Anyways, this girl has now flaked on me twice. First time was legit, she was travelling back from a weekend away as was I and timings didn't match up.
Most recently she bailed on me 45 minutes from when we were set to meet.
Her reasons? She was tired, lots of work, ill. She lives 2 minutes away.
I took it for the BS it was and haven't replied to her and likely won't for quite some time. She's always the first to initiate anyways so I'll address the flaking when it next comes up. Or maybe not. I don't care.
I digress however, as I really couldn't give two ****s about not seeing this girl tonight. Why? Because I don't have any strong investment with this girl, and i can't stress enough fellas that you can't have attachment in the longrun if you're just looking for a bang.
You know what I did with the time I could've spent banging this girls brains out?
I created revision notes for an exam I have in 2 weeks, I progressed further with my university coursework, I called my dad and arranged to meet my family at the weekend for my mum's birthday, I got on the phone to Apple and got a free Macbook Pro after they ****ed up my last repair.
Hell, I even had another girl come round (who hates my guts by the way
) and we had a quick catchup and you know what she said 'You look good Dan, your skin is great!'And you know what? I DO look good, my skin DOES look great, I'm in the gym often and it shows.
But you know what makes that all the more important is that I already know it, I don't NEED anyone to tell it to me as I know my self-worth and that I'm actually quite a catch.
That's why I don't care about not seeing this girl tonight, sure s_x is always good but I don't let this rejection get me done. **** her (literally
)Know your worth guys, be less attached, focus on you, and always keep busy as there's always something to be done.