"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Risk it or stay safe?!

silverwex

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Have to make this quick guys:

So you're kinda 'meeting' a certain girl every time you go out clubbing and gettin off with her - shes ok looking but not spectacular.

A massive night out is coming up (Stephens Night) and its one of the best nights of the year to go out sarging great looking women.

This girl is going to the same place as me on that night, now here's the problem.

I want SOMETHING that night, if you know what I mean...

E.g. I want to pick-up someone hotter than her but if I fail to do that I wanna go off with her lol. (Shallow or what?!)

So should I risk getting nothing and go sarging (out of her view) or just stick with her for the night?

Think I know the answer but wanna see what you guys say lol.

BTW, the club we're going to is in the middle of nowhere (love that place...) and I dont wanna stay in town as it'll be too crowded so sarging somewhere else isnt an option!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by silverwex




So should I risk getting nothing and go sarging (out of her view)




Hell yes, just don't get caught ;)

Plan B is always a good idea. Best of luck, bro.
 
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