Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
We are all farmiliar with risk, we risk facing rejection when making the first move all the time. This post is about a different aspect of risk that needs to be touched on.
I see it all the time. Posters coming here asking for step by step directions on how to get the girl. That is not the way to go. This site teaches a way of thinking, not directions on how to.
The best way to learn is to risk making a mistake and learning from it.
What do you learn from posting a question and getting an answer? Nothing. You learn to depend on the board for all you future questions, which is unhealthy.
I would love to see more posters go out, fvck up then come back here and post what they think they did wrong instead of asking what they should do the day before and worrying about it so much that they really fvck up.
The focus should be on you. Don't worry to much about making her happy, or doing the right thing, just have fun, because if your not having fun, whats the point?
I see too much dependency on the advice given here, I think it would benefit everyone if we started to risk fvcking up instead of wondering what to do, what to do.
I am not the best writer, I can't put my thoughts onto paper (or keyboard) nearly as well as some others here, but I hope you all get my point.
Mr. Mystery
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"Every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around" - Vanilla Sky
The unexamined life is not worth living – Socrates
"Whats your favorite position? That's cool with me, it's not my favorite but I'll do it for you" - Tenacious D - Fvck her gentley
"I'd rather hear no, than never know" - Mr. Mystery himself!
Those that go searching for love, only manifest their own lovelessness. And the loveless never find love, only the loving find love. And they never have to seek for it - D.H. Lawrence
"Don't take life too seriously or you'll never get out alive" - Van Wilder
I see it all the time. Posters coming here asking for step by step directions on how to get the girl. That is not the way to go. This site teaches a way of thinking, not directions on how to.
The best way to learn is to risk making a mistake and learning from it.
What do you learn from posting a question and getting an answer? Nothing. You learn to depend on the board for all you future questions, which is unhealthy.
I would love to see more posters go out, fvck up then come back here and post what they think they did wrong instead of asking what they should do the day before and worrying about it so much that they really fvck up.
The focus should be on you. Don't worry to much about making her happy, or doing the right thing, just have fun, because if your not having fun, whats the point?
I see too much dependency on the advice given here, I think it would benefit everyone if we started to risk fvcking up instead of wondering what to do, what to do.
I am not the best writer, I can't put my thoughts onto paper (or keyboard) nearly as well as some others here, but I hope you all get my point.
Mr. Mystery
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"Every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around" - Vanilla Sky
The unexamined life is not worth living – Socrates
"Whats your favorite position? That's cool with me, it's not my favorite but I'll do it for you" - Tenacious D - Fvck her gentley
"I'd rather hear no, than never know" - Mr. Mystery himself!
Those that go searching for love, only manifest their own lovelessness. And the loveless never find love, only the loving find love. And they never have to seek for it - D.H. Lawrence
"Don't take life too seriously or you'll never get out alive" - Van Wilder