"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ripped CHEST

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I need to know the top 3 chest exercises that'll flatten and tighten my chest.

Please do not reply "see Deisel Guide".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aside from the Bench Exercizes.... I would do some Dips and some Cable Crossovers to shape and firm the chest.... maybe some pec dec fly's too.
 

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Thanks for the speedy reply. Could you give some descriptions of Dips, Crossover, and Pec Dec Fly.
 

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Thanks for the speedy reply. Could you give some descriptions of Dips, Crossover, and Pec Dec Fly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Industry
Aside from the Bench Exercizes.... I would do some Dips and some Cable Crossovers to shape and firm the chest.... maybe some pec dec fly's too.
You can't shape the muscle. And 'firming' it would be cutting body fat down, not related to an exercise.
 

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If you are going for an aesthetic chest - you should do primarily low incline (b/w 30-45 degs) bench/db presses.

pec dec flyes are terrible - a nice recipe for rotator cuff inpingement. try dumbbell flyes instead - and even then, do those sparingly.

Basically to have a kick ass chest this is all you need to do:

Heavy ass incline presses
Heavy ass flat presses

by heavy I mean you are going heavy (fail at 4-7 reps) BUT YOU STILL HAVE EXCELLENT FORM. You cheat on form, you cheat your pec size, period.

D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by seulaxplaya
yeah uh no one mentioned push-ups. u can do those anywhere and anytime. vary the arm distance.

stick to the benches for the most part.

for my chest i routine i do a total of 10 sets:

4 sets FLAT
4 sets INCLINE (the first knob thing on the adjustable angle bench)
2 sets CABLE rows

just for fun i like to throw in some pushups afterwards, but generaly dont recognize them as part of my routine
 

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notice how swimmers have ripped chests ;), sorry I dont know tons of info on fitness, but I know that swimming is one of the best cardio/full body workouts you can do
 

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Originally posted by Kevon
notice how swimmers have ripped chests ;), sorry I dont know tons of info on fitness, but I know that swimming is one of the best cardio/full body workouts you can do
the motions executed when swimming closely mimic the chest pullover exercise -- maybe that's why?
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've heard that low weight, lots of reps gets you ripped quick, is there any truth behind this?
 
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