"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ripped CHEST

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I need to know the top 3 chest exercises that'll flatten and tighten my chest.

Please do not reply "see Deisel Guide".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aside from the Bench Exercizes.... I would do some Dips and some Cable Crossovers to shape and firm the chest.... maybe some pec dec fly's too.
 

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Thanks for the speedy reply. Could you give some descriptions of Dips, Crossover, and Pec Dec Fly.
 

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Thanks for the speedy reply. Could you give some descriptions of Dips, Crossover, and Pec Dec Fly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Industry
Aside from the Bench Exercizes.... I would do some Dips and some Cable Crossovers to shape and firm the chest.... maybe some pec dec fly's too.
You can't shape the muscle. And 'firming' it would be cutting body fat down, not related to an exercise.
 

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If you are going for an aesthetic chest - you should do primarily low incline (b/w 30-45 degs) bench/db presses.

pec dec flyes are terrible - a nice recipe for rotator cuff inpingement. try dumbbell flyes instead - and even then, do those sparingly.

Basically to have a kick ass chest this is all you need to do:

Heavy ass incline presses
Heavy ass flat presses

by heavy I mean you are going heavy (fail at 4-7 reps) BUT YOU STILL HAVE EXCELLENT FORM. You cheat on form, you cheat your pec size, period.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by seulaxplaya
yeah uh no one mentioned push-ups. u can do those anywhere and anytime. vary the arm distance.

stick to the benches for the most part.

for my chest i routine i do a total of 10 sets:

4 sets FLAT
4 sets INCLINE (the first knob thing on the adjustable angle bench)
2 sets CABLE rows

just for fun i like to throw in some pushups afterwards, but generaly dont recognize them as part of my routine
 

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notice how swimmers have ripped chests ;), sorry I dont know tons of info on fitness, but I know that swimming is one of the best cardio/full body workouts you can do
 

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Originally posted by Kevon
notice how swimmers have ripped chests ;), sorry I dont know tons of info on fitness, but I know that swimming is one of the best cardio/full body workouts you can do
the motions executed when swimming closely mimic the chest pullover exercise -- maybe that's why?
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've heard that low weight, lots of reps gets you ripped quick, is there any truth behind this?
 
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