“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's a thread on the general forum, but it seems more appropriate here.

I was watching ESPN First Take the other day, and Stephen A Smith gave his thoughts on Ali, which seemed to be mostly that he was a great African American who confronted White America by refusing to enter the Vietnam War, and got off the mat when hit by Joe Frazier because he wouldn't let White America defeat him.

Well, be that as it may. I am a white man, and I grew up in the 60s and 70s (I'm 7 years older than Smith), and I always liked Ali. I think Smith is very much under rating Ali by casting him solely as a great black hero, which he was. Ali was the most famous person in the world when I was growing up. It's hard to understand today, because back then the heavyweight boxing champ was one of the most well known and respected positions in sports. I don't even know who the current champ is, or if there even is one.

I know many young black men were dealt a raw deal by the Vietnam experience, but I must remind Smith that there were a whole bunch of white kids back then who were against the Vietnam war too. Yeah, there were old white men in power, but it wasn't just a white vs black thing, more of a rich/elite vs poor thing. It's true there were some people who resented Ali because of his civil rights stands, but I'm telling you now he had a lot of white fans also. I've seen statements tributing him as having one of the greatest lives ever lived, and I think that's far more fitting than the narrow focus Smith presented.

I've always been a man who respects humility, but Ali was very much a brash talker - his "I am the greatest" claim, which he has been quoted as saying before he even knew he was the greatest. He said that he would make these grandiose claims because it would then put pressure on him to deliver, and put in the work needed. I see this kind of self regard and humility as being two sides of the same coin, in a way. I bring this up here since self regard and even being full of yourself is often presented as a desirable trait for a PUA, or a ladies man, or a DJ, or whatever. I like Ali's take on it.
 
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