I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Because he's a nutjob, a druggie, or both. An article about the shooter, from people who knew him, came out today.Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
wow, I never thought of that one.
I'm still in shock over the whole thing. It is really fvcked up. I'm trying to figure out why this guy would do something like this.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I figured Dimebag would have been among the first to post about this. Maybe he is too grief-stricken to post.Originally posted by Hot Ice
Haha I double.
I've wondered sometimes when some member suddenly stop coming that posts a lot that maybe he has died tragically or something..