"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RIP David Carradine

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Israel

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it is such a terrible loss, He was a great actor indeed, a true alpha actor - just look at the way he acts on-screen - manly, calm and natural.. r.i.p
 

Luthor Rex

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Sounds like suicide was in his character:

But despite an enthusiasm for his work, the actor had openly discussed his battle with suicidal thoughts. In a 2004 interview, Carradine said: "I remember one time sitting at the window of the third or fourth floor of the Plaza Hotel for about an hour, thinking about just tipping off."

He also said he had considered shooting himself.

"Look, there was a period in my life when I had a single action Colt 45, loaded, in my desk drawer. And every night I'd take it out and think about blowing my head off, and then decide not to and go on with my life. Put it back in the drawer and open the laptop and continue writing my autobiography or whatever. But it was just to see."
 

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Sounds like auto erotic asphyxiation to me and from the searching I've done online it seems I'm not alone in that conclusion.

http://1stnews.org/542/david-carradine-death-not-suicide/

He was naked and had a chord tied around his genitals as a lot of these people do as its supposed to bring you back to life with pain if you pass out as when you fall unconscious your body weight pulls on the cord tied to your balls.

What a humiliating way to go.

And what a waste of talent.

This guy was a great actor and acting personality.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why did he do this? The guy had everything. He had a fame, some money and a hot wife.

May this be proof that the typical external things people seek does not always bring happiness.
 

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RIP ? Rest in Peace ? Doubtful. He committed suicide, which means he will burn in hell for rest of eternity.

Well, or so the Christians think. I never did believe in that crap anyway :)
 

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Wiesman44 said:
RIP ? Rest in Peace ? Doubtful. He committed suicide, which means he will burn in hell for rest of eternity.

Well, or so the Christians think. I never did believe in that crap anyway :)
Nowhere in the Bible does it say that. Just to clear up that misnomer.

On a lighter note..looks like someone killed Bill.
 

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According to his latest ex, David was a freak so this may have been an accident. Look at smoking gun's article on him.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kung Fu died? awwww.
 
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