You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LOL **** YEA! BRAZILIANS ARE S$#(# EASSSSSYSon of anarchy said:If you need anrything else than your penis to score in rio,you should improve your game mate.![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
These are the ones we look after...speakeasy said:I found that almost no women spoke English except the richest ones, and the rich Brazilian girls are pretty snooty and aren't too interested in screwing vacationing gringos.
The rich Brazilians or even middle-upper class definitely do not one night stands and are probably more difficult than American chicks.Pegador said:These are the ones we look after...
Or you wanna get maids?
Abraços
can you tell me more about this? which area/which clubs? I might jump there for a weekend.fuzzx said:Maybe you need to move to Sao Paolo.... where I lived, chicks were Eeeeeeeeeeasy!!!!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Not true. The HIV rate in Brazil is lower than in the United States.Amazing said:WRAP IT UP no matter what, huge AIDS risk there.
That's like telling first time visitors to the U.S. that Montana and Idaho are the only two states you should visit and none other, lol. Hey if all you like are blond haired, blue eyed white girls, then just to Sweden or Ukraine and get the real deal. What makes Brazilian women unique aren't the European immigrants in the south, it's the exotic mixtures you have in the rest of Brazil. Nobody considers those Nordic looking girls in the south to be the "real" Brazilian women. Adrianna Lima is a real Brazilian woman, not Giselle Bundchen(who is just a German born in Brazil). Plus, who in their right mind would skip Rio when visiting Brazil? That's like skipping Paris when you go to France!BigJimbo said:Rio Grande do Sul and Santa Catarina. The only states you should visit. Both are in the south. Both are safe and clean. Both are where pretty much EVERY 15 year old top model is scouted. Yes, just about ALL of them come from that part of Brazil. Good genetics - Lots of Ukraine and Polish girls. Some are mixed with some German or Mediterranean. No significant AIDS crisis. If you are not white you will stick out.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlIafbX1ikk
One of the oddest towns on earth. A town of twins. 1 in 10 births involve twins! Absolutely stunning. Hey, everyone is pretty much blonde-blue eyed. MMM, that is the Brazil I saw. The South of the country is where you go.
Going to Rio is only the dream of horny American boys who have no clue what is in Brazil. The two states I mentioned. That is it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some people are stupid. Some are REALLY stupid. Germans are not Brazilians!!! That is the dumbest thing on here. Millions and millions of Brazilians are pure Germans. Good thing you will never get to Brazil. What a joke. All of Brazil would laugh at you. Your punishment for those comments is to be stuck in America.speakeasy said:That's like telling first time visitors to the U.S. that Montana and Idaho are the only two states you should visit and none other, lol. Hey if all you like are blond haired, blue eyed white girls, then just to Sweden or Ukraine and get the real deal. What makes Brazilian women unique aren't the European immigrants in the south, it's the exotic mixtures you have in the rest of Brazil. Nobody considers those Nordic looking girls in the south to be the "real" Brazilian women. Adrianna Lima is a real Brazilian woman, not Giselle Bundchen(who is just a German born in Brazil). Plus, who in their right mind would skip Rio when visiting Brazil? That's like skipping Paris when you go to France!
And if you want black chicks why not just stay in America???? Memphis or D.C. should be high on your list.speakeasy said:My point completely flew over your head. I have traveled to Brazil as well as all over S. America and Europe. I'm well aware of the German ancestry common in S. Brazil. What I said is that if you want white chics with nordic features, why not just go to Europe? You'd have to be crazy to only go to the German parts of Brazil and think you've experienced the real Brazil. That's just crazy.