"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ring? text? how long?

Mr.Fantastic

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hi there,

i met a girl at uni and we have hung out a bit, and slept together once, other than that we have hung out and watched movies etc, it has been about a week and a half since the end of uni and i havnt contacted her yet. I want to meet up with her, but heres the thing: i have no money - i have been looking for a job, and the other thing is me being nervous etc, i dont do well in conversation, ive been out with her, but lots of alcohol was consumed to oil the wheels. I know i need to call her, but where to take her? bear in mind she is kind of on the gothic side..

i kind of wanted to sort out a job to get money in before i called her, but i also dont wanna leave it too long.

im thinking maybe text her something random just to keep in touch?

should i invite her to a group thing or go for a drink just the two of us or what?? aargh!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blinkwatt

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Call her and let her know that you are going on a walk in the park "Yeah I called Carmen Electra(any hot babe) was on a photo shoot,so I told her maybe next time,and I had to settle for my number two choice(her)" Her jaw should drop..
 

blinkwatt

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Call her and let her know that you are going on a walk in the park "Yeah I called Carmen Electra(any hot babe) was on a photo shoot,so I told her maybe next time,and I had to settle for my number two choice(her)" Her jaw should drop..
Can a mod please remove my double post?
 
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