"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ring? text? how long?

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Mr.Fantastic

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hi there,

i met a girl at uni and we have hung out a bit, and slept together once, other than that we have hung out and watched movies etc, it has been about a week and a half since the end of uni and i havnt contacted her yet. I want to meet up with her, but heres the thing: i have no money - i have been looking for a job, and the other thing is me being nervous etc, i dont do well in conversation, ive been out with her, but lots of alcohol was consumed to oil the wheels. I know i need to call her, but where to take her? bear in mind she is kind of on the gothic side..

i kind of wanted to sort out a job to get money in before i called her, but i also dont wanna leave it too long.

im thinking maybe text her something random just to keep in touch?

should i invite her to a group thing or go for a drink just the two of us or what?? aargh!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blinkwatt

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Call her and let her know that you are going on a walk in the park "Yeah I called Carmen Electra(any hot babe) was on a photo shoot,so I told her maybe next time,and I had to settle for my number two choice(her)" Her jaw should drop..
 
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Call her and let her know that you are going on a walk in the park "Yeah I called Carmen Electra(any hot babe) was on a photo shoot,so I told her maybe next time,and I had to settle for my number two choice(her)" Her jaw should drop..
Can a mod please remove my double post?
 
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