"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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RamboCS

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I'm new to this forum, but I've read some tips from time to time. I need advice on this girl I'm currently trying to pound, don't really know what to do, so I'd thought I'd join up. Anyway, a little backstory is probably necessary, so I'll fill you all in on what exactly has me confused.

I met this girl through a friend. His girlfriend set us up. I was hanging out with my friend, his girlfriend was hanging out with her, so we all decided to hang out together. First night we hung out, we played a game and watched Saw. Some time during Saw I got my arm around her, we stayed like this the rest of the movie. Some time after my arm was around her she grabbed my hand. At the end of the night I got a kiss, then me and my friend departed into the night.

Me and this girl talked, decided we wanted to go see a movie that following Friday. (Last week.) We meet at a parking lot, I take her to the movies, we see the movie, and the same stuff that happened in Saw basically happens here. There was slightly more tongue action though. ;) On the ride home, we're talking it up, and she keeps changing the radio station on me, so I go to block her from changing the station, she grabs my hand again, we make it back to the parking lot. I tell her she has to listen to my favorite song which I have on CD, the song is like a half hour long, so I throw it in. We talk through most of the song. Towards the end of this convo she comments on being quite fatigued. Gentleman that I am, I show her how far the driver seat in my car leans back, and soon the passenger seat is leaned back just as far. She pulls me on top of her, we make out for a good hour and a half, I feel her T&A, its all good. I mean, if this girl chills with me in my car for two hours it must mean something, right?

We make plans for Friday, by which I mean today, for her to come over over the phone two nights back. I was supposed to pick her up and we were going to chill here, at my pad. Today comes, I talk to her online, she doesnt seem interested in coming over in the least bit. Maybe its that time of the month, or maybe something else is going on. Shes clearly in a bad mood. Growing bored of the convo, I tell her to contact me when she figures out what she wants to do, as I had things to do. Well, I go about doing what I wanted to do (smoked it up with some friends, ate, lifted, ate) and come back online.

The reason of her not wanting to come over, I believe, has something to do with some ex-exclusive; her away message is some **** about "still loving you." Now seeing as how I've hung out with this girl twice, and I'm not going out with her, its obvious shes talking about an ex. What should I do in this situation? The day is young. To call, or not to call? To give space and to party, or to attempt a go at the previous plans. Any thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smooth Player 056

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Welcome to the forum man.

Your first mistake was to say, "Call me when you figure out what you wanna do." You guys were sexually escalating, and due to social conditioning they dont want to be the ones that "made the plans that initiated a sexual encounter."

My advice is to call her TODAY, tell her to hang out with you. If she declines move on, If she accepts....continue to establish rapport and game her.

Remeber, dont make the mistake of judging someone elses mood from talking online.....You may have been interperting it all wrong.

In any case good luck.

~Smooth
 

RamboCS

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Ok, so shes getting ready and I'm gonna give her a call in a half hour or so. The only thing is, I'm not exactly sure what to do. I suck at bowling, and I'm not sure if the mini-golfing course I go to is open. The mall might be an idea, but I'd like something more active. Anyone got decent ideas, cheap things to do that are still fairly fun?
 

Morphiex

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pool , its always fun and cheap and u can do some real good kino.... =P

then just get some fast food and chill on the hood of the car while listening to some tunes at a place with a good view..... the lakee or up on a cliff ..... or sumthingl ike that.....

good luck mate =)
 
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