"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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joe45

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lets say a guy likes this gal right and he in college, after how long of nowing and chatting with the gal should he be askin her out. i now gals are more comfortable doing the groups thing than 1 on 1 with a guy,but what happens if ur a loner or few freinds kind of person then what. i mean if u ask too early u scare her off and she says no right . and if u do that gals well htey gossip like crazy and tell everybody and anybody around campus-one tells one and thorughout before ya now every gal nows about it. that what happening to me right now i get the smirk and lol hahah looks of smiles from girls and i now what its from.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jack McCrack

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You know, for a 24 year old, you sure spell like shat.

How can you expect anyone here to take you seriously?

I don't mean to be a stuck-up tightwad but at least make an effort to make your sentences coherent.

Thank you.
 

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Don't ask her out for an explicit date. Just tell her you're getting coffee and you'd like it if she came along with you.
 

joe45

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did it she said no-maybe next time , i did nto follow through on it later.
she told every body in the class and her freinds and yes we go to a small college so imagine the embarassment.

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Don't ask her out for an explicit date. Just tell her you're getting coffee and you'd like it if she came along with you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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