right course of action to take when bpd is revealed?

[Capt.America]

i been seeing alot of posts of bpd lately and i am just now really learning what it is all about so i wanna know what is the right course of action to take when you realize that your gf is bpd?

do u instantly dump her?
continue the relationship but be on your toes?
try to help her grow from it?


wat if your in a relationship with one but you find out that you have too much emotions for her, how do you lessen those emotions so u could come back to reality without actually dumping her?

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

All I can tell you is that you don't need the extra stress in your life. The last thing you wanna do is stick around and regret it later.

 

[CaptCommando]

If you can survive with that relationship being a simple booty call, that would be my route.

 

[bluejay83]

RUN

I married then divorced a bipolar... there's a 90% divorce rate for BPD for a reason.

It's impossible to live with.

 

[expos]

Instantly dump. Delete all contacts, emails, correspondence, block them on Facebook.

Once you leave them, they will make your life hell. They will either come back and seduce you starting a push/pull cycle which will drive you to insanity, or sleep with someone else immediately and destroy your soul.

LTRs with BPD's are hell on earth.