"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rid of Fear

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For the last 2 days I was at six flags.
I've always had a huge fear of heights and stuff.
But this time, i went on every mother fvcking ride, including the dive bomber ---->
http://youtube.com/watch?v=IhOuItWy_1A

After going down an 24 story high 80 degree slope at 85 mph (the titan), i feel as if I have nothing left to fear.
The adrenaline was so much. I felt so much more comfortable in my body, and my walk was not forced. Chicks were literally swarming me. I had no problem opening this set of 4 10's (really) and i made out with one of them. Then at the food stands, the chicks were trying to flirt with me, and during the lines of the rides, after I opened any girl, they'd be constantly trying to talk to me.

So just try to do something that you're not used to or that scares you everyday.
I think it'll change you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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krazyboy99 said:
you cold approached and kiss closed at an amusement park?? i don't think i've even pulled off something like that. details/convo??
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We got in line for the Mr. freeze ride. There were 3 hb 7-8's in front, and after we got in line, 4 hb 10's were behind us.
At first I was going through my mind what and when i was going to say something to the 10's, but I decided to talk to the 7's in front of us first.
I had fun with them and go them sorta interested. Then I saw my friend talk to one of the 10's, So I just joined in on the convo.

I don't remember much but,
I ask them where they are from (we were all there for a music competition). They said they won 4 gold medals, And i jokingly bragged about how we won 10 platnium medals.
Then we talked about the ride and how to line was so fvcking long.
I saw a girl that was short and asked the 10 that was closest to me what her name was. I said to the short one, "come over here". I placed her in front of me and waved over her head, and asked "are u sure ur tall enough?".
Then when we were close, I got some kino in by moving them around so I ended up on the same ride as my friends. Before they were about to go, they asked me something i forgot what, but i responded "because i'm homophobic" in a serious tone, but they knew i was joking. Then they said that they're gay. I told them to make out, they laughed, and I said to one of them, "if you won't make out with her, then do it with me". I went for it and got a short make out b4 their ride came.

i do realize i need to learn what paragraphs are, but I really don't wanna put too much effort into typing something.

i'm starting to think it's really cause of my social status in school, cause this sh1t outta school feels so much more natural and easy.
 
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also, i want to hang out with the girl i'm going to prom with this week (spring break).

Her interest level isn't too high in me. she likes me, but not a whole lot.
For example, her eyes were glowing when i asked her and she had a huge smile on her face. But she doesn't initiate convo with me on myspace, and on e-mail, she asks things like "what's new with you?", and stuff, but doesn't really seem too interested.

I'm thinking about taking her to the mall to get me some new clothes (stupid brother put a pen in the washing machine and my clothes now have black dots). But the problem is that neither one of us drives.
Should i just get my parents to drop me off and have her's drop her off too?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crazy Asian said:
For the last 2 days I was at six flags.
I've always had a huge fear of heights and stuff.
But this time, i went on every mother fvcking ride, including the dive bomber ---->
http://youtube.com/watch?v=IhOuItWy_1A

After going down an 24 story high 80 degree slope at 85 mph (the titan), i feel as if I have nothing left to fear.
The adrenaline was so much. I felt so much more comfortable in my body, and my walk was not forced. Chicks were literally swarming me. I had no problem opening this set of 4 10's (really) and i made out with one of them. Then at the food stands, the chicks were trying to flirt with me, and during the lines of the rides, after I opened any girl, they'd be constantly trying to talk to me.

So just try to do something that you're not used to or that scares you everyday.
I think it'll change you.
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ur asian
 
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