"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rickys goals and fun tour for the fall!

Ricky

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Gentlemen,

I'm done with some big work and study goals. So now it's on to fun.

I have some great goals for fall. In this posts and many others I will review many of the dating materials I've gotten over the years.

I will also post field reports and relate a few goals I have in various areas.

If anyone wants to join the accountability group I spoke of a while back feel free to PM me.

Now I present goal number 1

In the month of September I will speak to 100 new women! I will put no other requirements than that. Why? Because I'm the picky one. If I don't like the girl I surely wont ask for her email or phone number but out of the ones that I do I will.

I'll keep some stats too!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Holy Crap! Good luck man! 100 women!..

Maybe that's what I need to do. When I go out by myself set a number amount in my head of how many I'm going to talk to.

I need to get back out in the game...:mad:

Try harder.
 

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Holly smokes, 100!
I'd have to include that blue-hair wearing Virtual Reality shades and who, naturally, drives an Old's-mobile to come to 100!

good luck man!
 

Ricky

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Well i plan on meeting 100 new woman. For me that might just be a conversation with a new one. 3-4 a day and you reach the goal.

Id prefer to meet 100 nude women! That may happen too. Who says you can't bat 1.000
 

Ricky

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It may not be September but this week I've talked to more girls than probably all summer.

Got an email address last night. I like doing that. On more than one occasion I've emailed a girl casually for a few months and banged her. Amazing but it works.

Have a date tomorrow, the girl seems nice I've talked to her off the internet but it is a blind date! Dangerous I know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Congrats for soing that. BTW my guess is 20-30 is gonna do it for you or most people for that matter. Enjoy.
 

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Ricky, where are you finding these girls to start talking to? Is it just anywhere you are bumping into them?
 

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Mainly bars, but I want to expand that venue.

I am suffering from personal and physical burnout. I'm going to rest up for a few days.

For the last 2 years I've been working and going to school at the same time and sacrificing sleep. I know one can't make up a sleep debt, but it has really affected me in a negative way and probably cost me a relationship.

I went out Friday and was tired. Yesterday I was exhausted and today i slept more. I'm starting to feel better although I have an afternoon date I'm not real excited for.
 
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