"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Richard Dawkins crucified over sexist comments

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Deep Dish

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I saw the 'controversy' and was already familiar with the girl in question (not personally, of course), since I pay attention to that scene. While the intellectual atheism blog scene does have a bend towards feminism, unfortunately, Dawkins will be perfectly fine. His career and leadership will not suffer by any real significance.

It should be noted the guy in the elevator had no game.

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/07/13/potential-rapist-syndrome/
 

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Lol when you hear lots of girls always saying they were almost raped I assume this is what they meant: a socially awkward guy hit on them. Poor them.
 

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She did not complain. She just wanted to let the world know, she is desirable. Creep it might be...but what other women give for that. And she expected responses like:' Why are you surprised? U hot.'
Instead Dawkins went hysterical.

Real offence scenario:

Atheist/Sceptic woman: Well, I don't believe in God, because I've never seen him.

Guy: Well, I've never seen your ***** but I believe you have one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The mindless hypocrisy of pc liberals never ceases to disgust me.

The same crowd who worship the 1st Amendment, because they want to be free to defile their minds with trash (as they should be), are even faster to shriek and snarl anytime someone sais or writes something they don't like. Why don't all those ACLU lawyers file "free speech" lawsuits to protect racists or sexists or homophobes or ANYBODY WHO SAIS ANYTHING FOR WHICH HE IS PERSECUTED?

If you pay close attention, you'll notice that those who shriek about racism are the real racists and those who snarl about sexism are the real sexists and those who whine about exploitation are the real exploiters.

WTF America, get tough, stop being a pvssy. Stop blaming everyone else for your problems, stop attributing your position in life to some nameless conspiracy against you by faceless conspirators, stop pretending that the magical power of brute force (government) can make everything right.
 
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