"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rich piana talks about his divorce

foreverAFC

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youtube star rich piana talks about getting used by his ex-wife for a green card......he didnt see the red flags.......

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yep....Didn't watch the whole video but he looks to be a cut , high value male. But he was used and thrown away. It can happen to anyone. No shame in it. I would surmise that he might need to work on his mental game a bit. He said that he married her after only a few months. Who does that?

Anyway it proves to me that you can be high value in several areas but if your mental game sucks then you are out of luck.
 

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I remember when I watched one of his videos a while ago, he did say that he married her after only a few months and they seemed really happy. I was wondering if they really could live somewhat a happily ever after type marriage especially after just meeting. But this just makes me realize that women don't even consciously realize that they are using men like him gor what they want. It is in their nature.

Oh well.
 

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Rich could take out most men with a good right hand. A beautiful woman could do it with a smile.

We've all made mistakes with women. Rich will meet better and move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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