"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ribs are hurt. Why me???

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Lately I have been making awesome progress in the gym and for once I was feeling pretty good about myself. So, just to even things out for me, the gods decided to bless me with a fvcking cracked rib. So I missed all last week's workouts and I guess I have to take this week off too because I can't even lay on my back without feeling a ton of pain in my ribs. I'm already feeling like my body is softer. I feel like sh*t when I can't lift and my confidence completely plummets to zero. So no matter what I am going to work out starting next monday. I won't stop unless my fvcking rib snaps and I have to be carried out on a stretcher. My life seriously always goes like this. If something is making me happy, it will be abruptly taken from me. It feels like there's some kind of force that doesn't want me to succeed. But I will ride on regardless and try to make up for lost time in the coming weeks.

Anyone ever had an injury like this or one that prevented them from lifting? If so, what did you do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So no matter what I am going to work out starting next monday. I won't stop unless my fvcking rib snaps and I have to be carried out on a stretcher.
That's a terrible idea. This isn't some movie. This isn't win one for the Gipper, nor are you fighting Apollo Creed.

Here's a better one: heal. In the meantime read everything you can on strength training.
 

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Oh no your life is over! You can't lift for a month or two! What are you going to do? How about you be a fvcking man about the situation! Say "Hey, I got some sh1t luck happening to me right now, but things happen and it could always be worse. I'll take this time to read a book or catch up with some old friends." But no, you look at the negitive side of everything which makes you a no good pvssy.

You're whining like a 2 year old! You're a man! If you go a little soft because you can't lift for a while than GOOD. It means you're going to have to work even harder to get back into to where you were. Don't be a "tough" (stupid) guy and hit the gym with an injury. Wait until you fully recover and you can do things right.

Here's to a speedy recovery :rockon:
 

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mrRuckus said:
get sympathy and get the ladies
yeah, be like 'ooooh baby, im hurting. . .inside. .and it feels sooo bad . . .Baby *look at her with shiny eyes*. . .theres no easy way to say this. . .I need a blow job to last through the night. . .. augghhhhhghh!!'
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As for actual advice. . .heal. Even minor injuries will severly limit the progress you make at the gym. See a doctor before you decide to lift. You might be able to do some exercises even when you're not 100%, talk to your doctor about it.

While you're injured, Always stay productive. Concentrate on your academics/career. Read some good books. Hangout with some friends.
 
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