"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can't tell if this was just low interest or what, but this was a chat I had on Facebook just now. Just wondering what the **** happened.


Me: Last Kendra I met was a bit on the "spacey" side.
Me: Prove me wrong and give me your phone number.
Me: I might call you up if I ever have time.


Her: lol , that was some funny **** .
Her: i dont even know you ? you live in the ****ing united kingdom ya **** .


Me: No, I do not!
Me: Lancaster's a dandy place.
Me: Not really, though. Reminds me of a vat of moldy onions.
Me: Anyways, I gotta go.


Her: youre a creep dude lol

Me: Ha! whatever you say, man.

Her: have a nice night yo lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey Sneevox. I want to help you out. So just give me a little background info. Answer this question for me:

Are you a troll, or are you just f**king stupid?
 

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gpshields3 said:
Hey Sneevox. I want to help you out. So just give me a little background info. Answer this question for me:

Are you a troll, or are you just f**king stupid?

Well, to put it lightly, this was just an experiment.
I was more-so looking for someone to nitpick and tell me why this didn't work rather than someone call me stupid.

Thanks for trying, though.
 

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Sneevox said:
Well, to put it lightly, this was just an experiment.
I was more-so looking for someone to nitpick and tell me why this didn't work rather than someone call me stupid.

Thanks for trying, though.
Why it didn't work? You're talking to her like a 12 year old who just read his first book on PUA.

Too many canned attempts at ****y&Funny. Trying too hard to sound confident. Basically, you don't sound like a real person. You sound like a collection of PUA gimmicks.

How's that for a nitpick?
 

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gpshields3 said:
Why it didn't work? You're talking to her like a 12 year old who just read his first book on PUA.

Too many canned attempts at ****y&Funny. Trying too hard to sound confident. Basically, you don't sound like a real person. You sound like a collection of PUA gimmicks.

How's that for a nitpick?
Works fine.
I literally didn't see any reason to learn about her, anyways.

Actually, I don't talk to MOST girls like that.

Like I said, experiment.
I was simply looking to see if being blunt as fvck would work.

Apparently not.

Also, I don't know what "PUA" means.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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