"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Review: Mystery Method Master Series-CD Interview

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Volume 1 Opening and Transitioning w/ Master Instructors Savoy and Sinn

This is essentially the "nuts and bolts" of opening, defined. There are so many fine detailsexplained, in an easy to understand way that, after listening to this CD, there will be absolutely no way to fail at opening ANY girl or grooup and transitioning into "attract game" If you open correctly, you will attract her and, SHE will seduce YOU.

Savoy and Sinn clearly know the game and revel in dissecting it to save you any trouble. In the span of approx. 75 minutes, a wide range of topics are covered-I suggest having a notebook handy when you listen. Here is a partial list (You possibly may see one of your sticking points here)

  1. Tonality and Loudness-Effectively communicating dominance and confidence
  2. The 90-10 Rule-Run the game or lose at it!
  3. When and when not to "Neg"
  4. Effectively plowing without appearing "TRYHARD"
  5. Calibration according to ratings & social position
  6. How long to pump buying temperature in obstacles, without going to far before transitioning to target
  7. How soon to start testing for compliance ( and why we do it)
  8. Handling interrupts and potential CB's
By the end of the first installment, you will learn that it's more about the delicate sub-text, than the text itself, (i.e.-canned material, routines and stories) and what it is to project that somewhat intangible quality of success with life and love, which attracts the ladies. The more prepared you are, it can be as Savoy puts it at one point, "A Virtuous Circle." I believe that, if you're not prepared, you will find it a vicious circle. Now, as you get better at playing the game, the more fun it will be. That is an easy choice that you can make.

Peace-Waxlrose
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have you went out and practiced what you learned yet? How effective was the stuff that you were trying? Also how was the the Voice projection part did it get deep into that? or even asked how to get a better projection? Because on trains and parties I can barely say a word.
 

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It mentions it a bit and goes into using different voices for different situations. Be Louder in clubs, not so loud in coffee shops, still, you want to have people think that you don't fear speaking, that you are meant to be heard. Speak from the chest, place your hand there, feel the vibrations. That's loud enough for quiet environments.
 

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What about in clubs cause I read some other voice projection stuff and now able to talk pretty loud in places with not to much noise. For instance in lunch room i can talk pretty loud, but on fast moving trains, parties, etc I can't even make 1 word come out. Any excersies to get better at it?
 

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The voice is a muscle, it should get sronger as you use it. You don't want to be CRAZY loud. If she can't hear you, motion her to get closer-don't peck or lean into her, you have to make her work for YOU. Attract her and she will.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I listened to this interview the other day.

They clear up opening very well. In addition to what wax posted they also clear the confusion guys have about "indirect" and "direct" openers, canned material, day game opening vs night game, how to get off your opener.


I recommend this to guys that can't open 80-90% of the time.
 
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