"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Reverse Stalker situation as of today...

Sprayarc

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Fat Chick (big and tall), about my age, with pen and paper, corners me today in front of her co-workers, and asks me to write down my phone number. She asks me to come over tonight and watch a movie (scary). I say that I don't like being scared. She says, "I'll hold your hand..." I give in and write down my phone number because her co-workers are a mere 10 feet away and can/are probably listening to us. I did not want to reject her in front of her co-workers. I've rejected girls in the past in front of their co-workers and it just Devastates them and they end up not lasting in the job more than 3 months later.

I'm just not interested in fat girls, especially Fat girls MY AGE, but this one is/has been soooo desperate for me over the past 4-5 months, always making sexual allusions in our convos. She's kinda into Wicca I think, Satanic I think. She has nice eyes and decent face, but her body is just plain Unacceptable to me no matter how much I like large breasts.

She still hasn't called me tonight, thank god, and I'm not gonna answer if she does. I tried to give her hints that I am Not coming over tonight. She has absolutely NO SHAME. Her co-workers (ALL women) could hear everything I'd imagine. Could you imagine if the shoe was on the other foot?? and I was cold-asking out a customer/client business liason ON THE JOB? What would happen to ME? a dude?? Nothing will happen to her for this unprofessional behavior from her, because she is a her. That's a fact. It put me in a Very awkward position, trying to make me Validate her in front of her employees.

Why can't I be outright hit up by an early 20s Thin hot chick??? at work? I mean I Did have this happen by a young hottie 5 years ago, but it never happens anymore, except by fat old chicks who are clearly mismatched with ME, a successful FIT as fvck good-looking male.
"I don't like being scared" her " I'll hold your hand". You see what she did there? She dj'd you bruh. That's hilarious. Running game on you. Haha. Now you have to fvck her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JohnChops

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Lol you keep mentioning "fat" and "thin" in your posts. Who cares. If you Want to hang the whales then plug that blow hole up. If you want to bang twigs then ruffle their leaves. Lold at the she djd you post above
 

Yewki

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She's Very persistent, man, maybe I can get her to Pay for my ammo, and gas to go shoot.
Jesus. Just grab your balls and tell her no. "I like shooting by myself its kind of my alone time if you know what I mean" ... stop bending over backwards for her.

If you politely reject her and she gets all pissy... that's on her. You're so scared of burning your bridge with her, but why? Does she have a hot friend or sometihng?
 

Poonani Maker

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^^ No, her friend that a know, while fat (not quite as much), and better looking with kids (ewww no!), no desire for her friend that I know, but her friend tries to make her jelly by flirting with me about her electricity went of last night (storm) ONLY in her small section of the neighborhood, so she couldn't dress very well while naked (she was trying to put an image in my head). I said, "I have a sky light, and never have to worry about dressing naked unless there isn't a moon out).

Anyway, the subject woman of this post, asked me yesterday, how come I didn't take her (to the range this weekend). I said, "I just thought that you didn't want to go?" and she was "yes, I DID..." but she confirmed my observation of her not wanting to go by adding that she had an experience when young when her father was teaching her to shoot with an unsafe gun (no trigger guard). I told her I'm all about safety, and that I had a lot of fun (because I did). I stay for hours and don't leave until it gets dark.
 

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shes into satanic wicca **** wtf is wrong with you boy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thorninmyside

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Attracted or not, this girl has your hamster spinning. I think you wanna go there and see what the deal is.
 
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