Reverse Psychology worked...

[cyjay201]

HISTORY: Went out with this chick for four months. (Both in High School). She's a 9/10. Guys are always all over her, giving her attention. Telling her she's fine, blah blah blah. We dated for four months. I turned totally AFC on her, HARDCORE. I was a mess, so I broke off our relationship before she could, and told her "We should just be friends." I didn't talk to her for about a week, then BOOM. Phone rings.

I call her back the next day, she sounds really excited to talk to me. I set up a date with her, just for old times sake.

When we were on our date, we went miniature golfing. I applied lots of kino, she had a tear in her pants, and i said "Hey, your pants are ripped." Which she replied, "You shouldn't be looking there." I replied with "I'll look at whatever the hell I want to."

After that she got even more flirtacious, pinched my ass, leaned up against me, lots of contact.

We went for ice cream after that, and I just out of no where hugged her. She then grabbed my hand and interlocked with my fingers and and we held hands. I took her in a dark part of the park, lots of hugging, i looked at her in the eyes and i kissed her once, went in again after the second one she said "No, we can't do this."

Basically i just shrugged it off, and said "Okay" and she said "Are you mad?" and i said "Nope."

I'm just wondering if she was **** testing me, b/c of the fact we made lots of contact, which is something her dumass followers would never do. She also kept talking about all the other guys that "want her" which is obviously just her trying to get me jealous, and how she has a double date with this guy b/c her friend likes the other guy.

I have a feeling she's holding back getting intimate until I say I want a relationship again, which I don't, all I want is a **** buddy.

Your guys interpretation of her actions would be helpful, b/c I'm not calling her to hang out again until I know for sure that she just isn't pulling my ****.

Thanks.

 

[ChenCristos]

dude shes an AW- just go after other girls and keep her on the back burner, her actions mean nothing and you can't deduce how much she likes you from them. To be safe you shouldn't think anything about any of her actions unless you get to 3rd base or hit a HR

 

[cyjay201]

Originally posted by ChenCristos
dude shes an AW- just go after other girls and keep her on the back burner, her actions mean nothing and you can't deduce how much she likes you from them. To be safe you shouldn't think anything about any of her actions unless you get to 3rd base or hit a HR

I've sexed her already though, This isn't the first time we've hung out, and we've been intimate before, so that's why I think she's willing to give it up again.

That and the fact that she's always *****ing and whining about all the guys after her, i think she's subtly trying to tell me that she wants me as her b/f again.

Thanks for the input.

Anyone else?

 

[blinkwatt]

she may have told you to stop just to save her own ass.she may want you to look like your the one trying to start something,hence she tried to stop you thinking you wouldnt stop,but you did a big plus in my opinoin.

 

[cyjay201]

Originally posted by blinkwatt
she may have told you to stop just to save her own ass.she may want you to look like your the one trying to start something,hence she tried to stop you thinking you wouldnt stop,but you did a big plus in my opinoin.

That's what I was thinking too, considering that she was the one that made the first initial contact, she doesn't want to be viewed as the one that "WANTS" the other person so badly.

Thanks for your input.

 

[00Kevin]

you didn't do this right. she doesn't care about your lovely kiss or the fact that you looked her in the eyes. She is an AW!

What you should of done is kissed her neck or felt her up. next time get it right! feel the AW up. start with something that will turn her on. Don't start with something that goes hand in hand with a relationship. if you want to sex her again then turn her on and focus on that. Try NOT kissing her, but do everything else. trust me it will work. no kissing.

she doesn't want a relationship with you and that is why she wanted to stop

You also have to realize that she is an AW and she isn't going to be worth anything more then some fun. Sorry to break it to you like this but it is true.

 

[cyjay201]

Alrite, thanks Kev.

I don't understand why she would go to such lengths, if I

A) Ignored her for a long time

B) Held my hand, (not exactly an attention ***** trait is it?)

C) Keeps telling me she wants all of the other guys hitting on her to go away. (She's a HB 9/10, and is pretty much a perfectionist)

D) After I got in the car said "Let's start over", "My name is HB, nice to meet you."

I'd like to believe that she is an attention *****, but I don't think she is. I've dated an attention ***** who messing around with my best friend without me even knowing it, hence the reason I found this site because I was so frustrated.

I'm going to plan another date, I'll follow my gut instinct and by then I'll know for sure what her true intentions are.