Reverse 3 strikes...?

[Gamer]

So I met a girl at a club a few weeks back, briefly, number closed. Didn't game her as there were other hotties around and gamed them instead. (reverse strike 1?)

Set up a date with the said girl the following weekend, again, got sidetracked by another hottie, so cancelled with the girl. (reverse strike 2?)

A week later same thing happened (reverse strike 3?)

Now fast forward a couple of weeks. We finally managed to meet up...a very last minute call from me (I know I'm a bit of w@nker probably, only did that cos I was blown out by another hottie), and to my surprise she agreed to meet. Date was good, a couple of drinks and body language and vibe was good too. Turned out that she's actually an HB8 and is interesting as well. (Probably too intoxicated with booze at the club when we first met and I rated her a 6 then). So I tried to escalate and suggested we move onto another venue for more drinks.

It didn't surprise me when she declined. I wasn't that bothered the fact she declined either, hell, I would have done the same in her shoes.

Interestingly though her reply to me was 'not tonight'

Thoughts as to how to proceed?

 

[Tiguere]

I wanna have your problems.

 

[Tiguere]

Shut up with your silly strikes. A girl will give you unlimited strikes as long you keep tingling her vag. Make another date for in 3 days. Don't let too much time pass.

 

[omega05]

She says "not tonight" and you have to ask us what to do next....

 

[jafyk]

She met with you right? I think you are trying to get too much in at once. Let her be and then get with her some other time.