Revealing to a girl true intention of lust?

[regular_guy]

Hey all,

I guess I am just starting into the whole dating game. I met this girl though salsa class. Yesterday we have met at a salsa club and had a few dances. We came in separate cars, and at around 10:30 p.m. I left to go to another party. Silly me for leaving here there, probably a very bad move on my party. I think she may have wanted to go, but I did not want to drag her to the other side of town just to go to a part. I had nothing planned. But it did not feel quite right. I think next class which I will see her I will tell her that I did not feel right about leaving here there. She knew another male friend in the club.

Currently I would like to experiment with women and not get into any serious relations. I am not sure what this woman wants with regards to a relationship. But when I am with her I am thinking one thing. To have my way with her . I am thinking the next time out that I may reveal that to her. Something along the lines of "I have been conditioned to be respectful, but I all I have on my mind is to pin you against a wall and have my way with you". Have you guys done this before? Was it a positive outcome?

Cheers,
regular guy

 

[Fuglydude]

When I was single, i'd never really hide my intentions with women...I don't realy see the point. They know you wanna phuck em, you know you wanna phuck em....so lets get it on! I'd never be pushy for sex, but it always seemed to happen. Obviously if you're not that interested in a girl and you happen to go out with her, jus don't escalate things to higher levels.

This always worked ok for me. Not sure what other guys will think.

 

[regular_guy]

Obviously if you're not that interested in a girl and you happen to go out with her, jus don't escalate things to higher levels.

What do you mean. I am interested, I am interested to get her into bed. I like her body, she is also a smart girl, and does not seem that shallow. Her face is a little lacking. I think she is also older then me, not sure by how much. I am 24. Like I said I want to experiment and just have a fun relationship with lots of sex. I am not sure if she feels the same way. Would telling her exactly what I am after be kewl or not?

 

[Randallpink83]

well since you are just experimenting, then screw it, try whatever!

Make a statement of intent is a good thing, but it will come off a lot better if its in-line with your style. Like when I first meet a girl and I'm esculating, kino, lots a sexual vibe, then a statement of intent is just in-line with who i am. But don't be all close friends with her and then out of the blue be like "I like you... you're really smart! you're so beautiful!".... Not that I think you would say something like that, but worst case scenario you know.

I would just start having fun with her... LOTS of fun.. just playing and have fun is the natural stepping stone to sex.. Then qualify her, try and mix in the qualifying to your intent. "Wow you are such an adventurous girl! When we first met I just thought you took life seriously, But I can see now, you are such a fun person... It feels really good hanging out with you... I just want to push you up against that wall and plant one on you." .... lol, something like that. Kino, Fun, escalate, Fun, Sexual, Fun!!!