"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Returning to High School

tyciol

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Well, I still consider myself a highschool student because I have to get 6 more credits before I'm finished. You see, I was having some difficulties in school (read: stress, chronic sleeping in, depression) and switched from high school to adult day school, thinking that the more adult atmosphere would help, which it didn't, and I still had the same kind of attendance problems, so I dropped out of that too.

Right now I'm working part time at a supermarket, trying to get my game back together. I'm going to look into taking some correspondance courses while I get in shape and try and forge some positive routines, and eventually join the army reserves and possibly a **** circle.

So, with that background filled in, I'd like to know if there is anyone here who has dropped out of high school, or knows someone who has, and your input on the whole thing. I find that in high school, kids can be rather intruding about what courses you are taking, your marks, your post-graduate plans... at least among the circles I'm in. I find myself rather embarassed to talk about what happened, and avoid it through evasive conversation. Despite what most think, I don't think girls are attracted to guys who drop out of school, you have to be REALLY tough to counteract that, and I certainly am not. When I do return (as I may as well go to high school instead of ADS, it's just easier, more courses, better teachers, less costs), I would like to be more popular and in control. Fitness is one thing I can do... but even that probably isn't enough.

Has does a near-total loser practise the Don Juan Boot Camp? I'm okay with eye contact, I make it with a lot of people, but I'm afraid I might just creep them out... I look all greasy what with the red splotches of acne everywhere...eh well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WesCottII

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Originally posted by tyciol
I look all greasy what with the red splotches of acne everywhere...eh well.
Sort it out then. Good luck.
 

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acne...

To get rid of your acne go to proactiv.com or call them, that will clear your face up. Also take a shower in mornin and night. If you put sunscreen or anything on your face make sure it is dermatologist approved. Last thing dont touch your face so much either.
 

tyciol

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Easier said than done, love the face touching you see.
 

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i dropped out of high school for 2yrs and went back, it was a much better experience then when i went previously. people will respect your decision to comeback aslong as you respect it yourself and look at it as that your actually working to finish it and not just droppin out. you can make the most of the situation if you just talk to everyone in your classes and socialize with the cool ppl, but you have to be somewhat cool yourself to do that,and girls wont ****ing give a ****, if your good looking theyll talk to you, when i went back i had half the girls in the school on my left nut wanting some but most were seriously too young for me since i graduated when i was 21, but going back older and more mature isnt a bad thing it makes u realize how stupid most of the HS bull**** is
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tyciol

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My thoughts exactly. When I do return I intend to focus a lot more on schoolwork.

I've always had a bit of a babyface and was rather shy and un-hairy, so I was always concerned with all that silly stuff. Now I won't be... in fact I wish I didn't have to shave so much. Bloody hell... I think I'll shave half my legs.
 

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work on your school work and the other **** will just come along
 
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