"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cinamon

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The guy i created the post below about got in touch with me through facebook after almost 9 months, extremely apologetic. Do i ignore him or give him a chance to apologise and get closure. I have no intention of dating him, it would be like returning to the scene of the accident, too traumatic, but i would love to know what went on in that head of his.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=162095
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WhitePimp

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What went on in his head was that he was terrified and made up some BS to bail. Maybe he got laid in the meantime and realized vaginas will not bite off or harm a d!ck (although I don't know if that's the case for Indian chicks...)

Just ignore unless you really need the drama to spice up the mundane
 

boomerick

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You're not his mom, you can't save him. Move on. You will never really be able to forget how he wussed out on you last time. He obviously had the chance to pound and he bounced. NEXT!!!!!
 
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