"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cinamon

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The guy i created the post below about got in touch with me through facebook after almost 9 months, extremely apologetic. Do i ignore him or give him a chance to apologise and get closure. I have no intention of dating him, it would be like returning to the scene of the accident, too traumatic, but i would love to know what went on in that head of his.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=162095
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WhitePimp

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What went on in his head was that he was terrified and made up some BS to bail. Maybe he got laid in the meantime and realized vaginas will not bite off or harm a d!ck (although I don't know if that's the case for Indian chicks...)

Just ignore unless you really need the drama to spice up the mundane
 

boomerick

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You're not his mom, you can't save him. Move on. You will never really be able to forget how he wussed out on you last time. He obviously had the chance to pound and he bounced. NEXT!!!!!
 
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