Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I guess maturity doesn't come with age... good job kid. Very diplomatic and I must say:AB500 said:Instead of pointing out specific points in my post and having an intellegent argument you bring up my age and call me an idiot? The number of days I've been living on this earth? Do you think it has much more then a rough influence on my maturity? You are made by your experiences, and I've had my fair share. Also, cursing does not make you sound smarter, it just raises the number of asterisks I have to skim over in your post.
That being said I never said that I didn't like fat at all, maybe I should have better defined a "fat chick". When I say that I mean someone that is more then 15-20 pounds higher then they should be. People that have rolls that would fit in your entire hand. Some very fine women I know have an inch of so of fat on them, it is ok looking and pretty healthy. A little fat is a fine healthy thing. A lot of fat is a result of eating at McDonalds a little too much and should be rectified. If you don't have the will power to diet and work out then you don't complain about being fat.
I am a recovering fat guy if you didn't read, I decided I was tired of being a fatass and never felt better. I am still a little overweight but it'll be gone by the end of summer. If you want to call me an idiot again or tell me to go **** 12 year old boys (I'm not sure if that was directed at me, if it wasn't then ignore that part) then feel free to but your rant will not be graced with my reply. However if you would like to debate with me feel free to.